We are used to accept ourselves fully only if:

We will realize this thing

Finally we will have that thing that we really want ...

We'll Be good at that skill that other people we know have

We will look in a certain way

We will Feel and be in this world as we imagine

We will own that quality or ability that other people have

Because we are not enough as we are. 

Really? :)

You don't need to be different from what you already, for the job you want.

You don't have to look different for the relationship you want.

You don't have to feel different, to do what you want in the world. 

As you are, is totally fine and perfect.